Comments: Lovesickness

[Anonymous]

http://www.islamicawakening.com/viewarticle.php?articleID=1137 </p>



what if a guy still dates a girl he is attracted to, and plans to get married five yrs later, and he knows that what he does is wrong, but he cannot help doing it, becoz he loves this girl so much. </p>

but, he protects her, and they vow not to have sex until they are married, and succeed in doing that (you may think they can't but they can actually save it until marriage).</p>



so? they are saved from AIDS and pregnancy, and at last they are going to get married anyway, even though they do stuff that is haraam, (holding hands, kissing..) at last they get married, and they taubat, and live happily ever after.</p>



i dont know, i wish i can answer to my friends who are dong these kind of stuff that dating is haram no matter what. but what if all the explanation of why it is haraam fails to impress them? help!</p>

[Anonymous]

Allah did not just make Zinaa haram, but He even made going near it Haram, " Go not near Zinaa..."

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by hanum</p>

http://www.islamicawakening.com/viewarticle.php?articleID=1137 (/viewarticle.php?articleID=1137) </p>



what if a guy still dates a girl he is attracted to, and plans to get married five yrs later, and he knows that what he does is wrong, but he cannot help doing it, becoz he loves this girl so much. </p>

but, he protects her, and they vow not to have sex until they are married, and succeed in doing that (you may think they can't but they can actually save it until marriage).</p>



so? they are saved from AIDS and pregnancy, and at last they are going to get married anyway, even though they do stuff that is haraam, (holding hands, kissing..) at last they get married, and they taubat, and live happily ever after.</p>



i dont know, i wish i can answer to my friends who are dong these kind of stuff that dating is haram no matter what. but what if all the explanation of why it is haraam fails to impress them? help!</p>

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not only sex is haram, everything that Allah has forbidden (like kissing or even just looking at each other) is forbidden for us. Be afraid of Allah's punishment, in this life or in the hereafter. May Allah guide us and give us strength.</p>

[Anonymous]

to hold hands and kiss and still not commit the 'act' now thats*******unlikely! without realizing people actually tell on themselves with a public show of affection that the 'deed' has already been done. </p>



no two people can ever engage in the 'act' without first indulging in the rituals of bad intention such as lustful looks, touching, kissing and more besides. this is the body preparing itself for the inevitable and therefore that which leads to zina is also zina, arguably*******of lesser seriousness.</p>



people who 'plan to marry' (eventually) often*******fall into zina. this false sense of morality causes them to loose their inhibitions, somehow it is fair seeming to them after all they intend to marry at the end of it.**************</p>