Wajdi Akkari On the Tablighi Jama'ah

**Umm DJ-N** · 19th June 2012

Originally Posted by abuhannah

Bro lose the kibr,humble yourself and have some adab when discussing matters,the brother gave you his Salam and is being polite so why the need to get aggressive with every other person who discusses any matter with you?..You been acting as such for a long time now,fear Allah and fix up inshAllah..

Wa salamolaikom wr wb..

This post was thanked by TWELVE people. So twelve people have got the wrong end of the stick? Or twelve people have the "holier than thou" attitude?

As a general rule: If you can't take it, don't dish it.

**Harris Hammam** · 19th June 2012

Originally Posted by sister64

This post was thanked by TWELVE people. So twelve people have got the wrong end of the stick? Or twelve people have the "holier than thou" attitude?

maaqib thanked me. Beats them all.

**AbuMubarak** · 19th June 2012

you cant take this stuff too serious, we are going to disagree, its part of human nature

**Expergefactionist** · 19th June 2012

Originally Posted by Harris Hammam

maaqib thanked me. Beats them all.

lol,

bro... Some people are simply not worth responding to, especially the stirrers. For every step you take towards reconciliation and clearing up misunderstandings, they will push you ten step backwards into endless immature bickering.

May Allah protect us all from such people, amin.

**Harris Hammam** · 19th June 2012

I don't want them to make an enemy out of you, AZ, so I'll say:

Khalid Assiri, I apologise for my tone, sincerely, unreservedly.

And Abu Hanna, please do Dua for me that I die without an iota of pride in my heart. Would love to have tea with you some day too.

**Ibn Khattab** · 19th June 2012

You can't help but notice the bias in everyone (including myself).

When someone you like is 'under fire' then you will do everything to defend him and give him/her the benefit of doubt etc. On the other hand, someone who you might have a bit of enmity towards (for one reason or another) or something, then he/she will be 'jumped on' at any given opportunity. If he/she had been someone you 'liked' then there would have been excuses and 'benefit of doubt' and husn ad dhann etc.

The recent Abu mussab incident along with this one has reminded me ...

Wallahu alam.

**Harris Hammam** · 19th June 2012

Originally Posted by Ibn Khattab

You can't help but notice the bias in everyone (including myself).

When someone you like is 'under fire' then you will do everything to defend him and give him/her the benefit of doubt etc. On the other hand, someone who you might have a bit of enmity towards (for one reason or another) or something, then he/she will be 'jumped on' at any given opportunity. If he/she had been someone you 'liked' then there would have been excuses and 'benefit of doubt' and husn ad dhann etc.

The recent Abu mussab incident along with this has reminded me ...

Wallahu alam.

I think you deserve a cup of tea with me as well.

**Umm DJ-N** · 19th June 2012

May Allah reward you HH, if its not clear, I really do respect you and read your posts hoping to benefit and learn from you.

Please forgive me if I have hurt or offended you. I hope Allah gives you what is best for you in this life and the next. Make dua' for me inshAllah, I know my manner can sometimes be harsh, rude, sarcastic etc and I am working on this. So jazakAllah for having patience with me (not just you but some others members as well) and not falling into insults or name calling etc

**Firebrand Mullah** · 19th June 2012

Come on now people. Stop arguing. Let's just be friends.

Here is something that might cheer you up

**Abu Treika** · 19th June 2012

Can I just add that I felt HHs tone was harsh but not necessarily rude, very different. It seems some of you guys have an agenda against him and I won't be part of that, I have huge respect for the brother.