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Salafi Marriage Bandits... when will it stop?

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    Many of you are aware of the stories of Salafi Du'at (largely of a Madkhali persuasion) who prey on unsuspecting women (particularly new converts and other vulnerable women). These fiends have married countless times (some as many as twenty, forty times), had countless children (which they do not provide for), and will lie, deceive, and mislead these women just to get "a piece of action". In their role as marriage counselors, some of them have been known to advise couples to divorce only to swoop in and pick up the "leftovers" as soon as the iddah is over, divorcing her once again after he's had "a taste".

    In fact, it is not uncommon for them to marry a woman, enjoy her for a week, or a few weeks, and then divorce her. In some cases they have done this with young virgin girls. In particular, Dawud Adib is said to have the highest "scorecard" of all, but a number of these prominent Madkhali du'at are known to do the same.
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    Default Re: Salafi Marriage Bandits... when will it stop?

    We are having the same problem with Madkhalis in the Netherlands. Maybe someone should make a blog about the situation of Muslimah's here who have been abused by these evil madkhali sect of free-loaders.

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    What kind of Muslim would do this, I don't know, so disgusting. The repercussions for the communities, and the damage to the sisters psychologically must be devastating.

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    makes you question their Emaan, which may also explain why they are so disconnected from the Ummah.... they don't give a damn?

    Some elders are because of this not so reluctant on giving their daughters out to a particular community because of this.
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    Is this true?? Im really shocked, i knew Salafis were bad with their backbiting and disgusting attitudes but subhanAllah this is really sickening
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aboo Shayba View Post
    makes you question their Emaan, which may also explain why they are so disconnected from the Ummah.... they don't give a damn?

    Some elders are because of this not so reluctant on giving their daughters out to a particular community because of this.
    And then they blame it on "'Asabiyya".. "Wallahi brother, this is from the ignorance of Jaheeleeya! You are creating mushkeelahs for this Ummah!"

    The stories I've heard would make your blood boil.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Shawarma View Post
    And then they blame it on "'Asabiyya".. "Wallahi brother, this is from the ignorance of Jaheeleeya! You are creating mushkeelahs for this Ummah!"

    The stories I've heard would make your blood boil.

    If a man does not have Gheerah for his religion how can he have Gheerah for the honour of a woman?

    These madkhalis are what we refer to as "beghairat" in Afghanistan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollandistani View Post
    If a man does not have Gheerah for his religion how can he have Gheerah for the honour of a woman?

    These madkhalis are what we refer to as "beghairat" in Afghanistan.

    Exactly, some people are shocked and are like "how can they do this" the answer is they can do it very easily.If they can assist the kuffar in killing and capturing Muslims then what's abusing a few naive women here and there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by waziri View Post
    Exactly, some people are shocked and are like "how can they do this" the answer is they can do it very easily.If they can assist the kuffar in killing and capturing Muslims then what's abusing a few naive women here and there?
    Still shocking, yet as a convert myself, I think the worst thing is the idea that Sisters enter Islam, which would be a time of great importance as it is, and then taken advantage of like this, its sick. But yes, good point, the horror show that is Madkhalism isn't likely to switch up its rubbish when it comes to women.

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    Like the other site is doing - i would suggest a public thread which names these people so that it is well publicised online who they are and what they do

    I also think this would be a good initiative for the issue of speakers taking payments - a thread could be started where brothers could list the speakers and their demands from first hand experience.

    this kind of public accountability is what will reduce this kind of behaviour.

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