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    negligence of islam-


    on the day of my wedding - i see my wife who looks so beautiful in her golden wedding dress- her face slapped with make and her jewlerry make her so much more beautifuler then everyday- i sit proudley next to her as all the guests look at us and compliment us- my borther is taking photos of us and i catch him joking around with my mrs- i put it down to him trying to build a relationship with his sister in law-
    i take my bride home and a month later my wife and i argue about her attitude towards my brother- she starts cryng ad runs out the bedroom- soon my borthedr comes running up and starts telliing me how i can and can not speak to my MRS!
    i get frustrated- i want to leave home but mum says ''beta- abho to loogh ooti ko dekhnay aye gaye aur hum kya kahay ga?'' (son guests are still coming to see the new bride and what will we say when they come?)
    we remain and i start to notice my wife distancing herslef form me- i walk in to the room and her happy face changes when she sees me and her and my borther go silent- time continues and the marrage si not going well- i am angry and find my self picking faults at my brother just so i can argue with him-
    theres a wedding and i say i will not go- i order my wife to stay- i find she goes and beautifies herslef- her hair open like some grubby -----and her clothes stuck to her body jumps in with my brther and goes to the wedding- that day she returns and i tell her to get the ---- upstairs she stands before me and tells me she is going for a wash- i think i will beat this ----- so i leave the house to cool down-

    im thinkgin how to deal with this situation- ir eturn home and think to myself i will adress ehr with respect and we will leave- i go home and i call her name- theres nobody here- i go upstairs and as im about to chck all the rooms she runs out of my brothers room-
    i see her and i freeze- i push slaper out the way and go in the room to find my semi naked brother-

    what are your views? what do you think lead to this? could it have been avoided? how?
    this is one case of many occuring in our socitery

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    Default Re: my wife with my brother

    Is it your matter? And you miss to add a Muslim Male under your name?

    Or you're a sister and just wanna know about this issue?

    If you are a bro, I think moving it to the Bro's Section would be better and we'll discuss it over there freely, if you're a sister then this is what happened when husbands allow their spouses to show without Hijab in front of their relatives and allow them to joke and play around.

    This is the fault of costumes that contradict the Religion and it's wide spread may ALLAH preserve us from such evil, and it's also the husbands' mistake in a way or the other due to their behavior towards their wives, they should be more open and more understanding for what their Azwaj are thinking and what they want.
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    my gender is clearly stated below my user name-
    thankyou

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    Get back in the kitchen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by desert winds View Post
    my gender is clearly stated below my user name-
    thankyou
    Did you know that it is Haraam to be a lesbo? (Let alone a woman marrying a woman!!!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by B.A.S.E Jumper View Post
    Get back in the kitchen.
    Many people use the internet in the kitchen.
    This is backbiting This is my blog Let's make up! Do you use a keyboard?

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    Quote Originally Posted by petal View Post
    Many people use the internet in the kitchen.
    Ai, wireless is amazing.

    Desert winds, I'm a little confused. Are you posting this on behalf of someone else, or is this just a hypothetical situation?
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    Default Re: my wife with my brother

    i have clearly asked for your views at the bottom- i am a muslim female so its impossible for it to be my istuation

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    Quote Originally Posted by desert winds View Post
    on the day of my wedding - i see my wife who looks so beautiful in her golden wedding dress- her face slapped with make (up?) and her jewlerry make her so much more beautifuler then everyday- i sit proudley next to her as all the guests look at us and compliment us-
    Says it all... For that to make the guy "sit proudley (sp. proudly)" makes one wonder about his state.

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