my wife with my brother

[Abu Hurairah]

Did you know that it is Haraam to be a lesbo? (Let alone a woman marrying a woman!!!)

If a lesbian married couple have a physical fight, does it count as wife beating?

[abumuwahid]

I see comedy hour is in full swing.

Whatever happened to the principle "Deal with people according to their level."

Clearly the sister, is not as educated and polished as ye are.

She came here asking for someone's opinion on a matter and she neglected to provide the proper context for her query.

That does not mean she should be mocked.

And Allah knows best.

[abu 'eesa]

If a lesbian married couple have a physical fight, does it count as wife beating?

Depends. You have to look at which is more effeminate and if she is the one getting the beat down then yeah. But then again if the more masculine one is getting the beat down would that make her a sissy?

[friendshipandhope]

this is surely a joke?

salam

[abu 'eesa]

this is surely a joke?

salam

Which part? This is IA Forums matey! You can have multiple topics being discussed in one thread!

In this thread we have:

A sister posting on behalf of someone wanting advice on said matter
The place of women in the house
The ruling on lesbianism
Wonders of wireless internet
Gender clarification
Disparaging about said man in first post
Admonition on giving advice
What constitutes wife-beating in a lesbian marriage.

So which topic did you feel is a joke?

[desert winds]

i am glad people are seeing this as a joke- this is a real life situation which occured in my neighbourhood- things like this are increasing- maybe even in your negibourhoods but they are hidden-
what i was trying to do achieve was to get you all to see what went wrong- in this case lack of covering- hijaab nikaab and a lustful heart-

thankyou all-

[abu 'eesa]

i am glad people are seeing this as a joke- this is a real life situation which occured in my neighbourhood- things like this are increasing- maybe even in your negibourhoods but they are hidden-
what i was trying to do achieve was to get you all to see what went wrong- in this case lack of covering- hijaab nikaab and a lustful heart-

thankyou all-

Why is everything being blamed on the wife? Was this particular case related to forced marriage? Did the man like the woman and want to marry her? If so, for what reasons? For beauty? For riches? For family lineage? For Deen? If not for the latter then who is to blame?

[desert winds]

it was a arranged marrage- the family was of pakistani origin- tha blame i son many- on her for her neglect of covering- if she had kept herself hidden and abided by islam then the brother in law would have never looked at her etc- but many are inovlved in this breakdown

[abumuwahid]

Sister, I think n your part, to avoid situations like this, where you are not being taken seriously by some people, you need to provide a context for what you are posting. Both threads that you poseted were quite confusing as it appears that you wrote it yourself yet you are a female. So definitely this will arouse suspicion or disbelief/

Next time write an introduction like this.

This is a real life situation in my neighbourhood as perceived by a Muslim male who is having problems with his wife.

May I ask who the author is of the two threads you posted?

[Abu Hurairah]

what i was trying to do achieve was to get you all to see what went wrong- in this case lack of covering- hijaab nikaab and a lustful heart-

thankyou all-

Ahh I see, so you were trying to educate us and were treating you like the educatee. I would have told you this sort of stuff would work better on other forums but according to your introduction it seems they weren't very receptive to you either. Time for a strategy re-evaluation me thinks.

Of course we're not beyond being taught here, but please don't jump in and assume the teaching position off the bat.

And make your opening posts clearer. Also read through the forums for similar threads i.e. to do with marital relations, not threads to do with a new female user posting as a man who's being cheated on and wants to beat up his/her wife, there aren't many threads like that surprisingly.