Announcement The right matrimonial web-service for the committed Muslims :)

[Al Jazairi]

Someone has dropped me an email about this service PureMatrimony.com, and I mean someone that I highly regard as trustworthy, so I took sometime to visit it, and I'm going to recommend it for the guys, who are still struggling to find their other half

Mainly, this may interest converts, or brothers and sisters, who haven't someone else to look for that special one for them, although anyone can register and use the service, and by the way I'm not not getting paid for this, so stay away AHor, you know that I'm not looking anymore; however, you can try it may be you'll find UmmH there :P

Basically, there are no private messages allowed, although technically you can PM anyone, just keep in mind, every and each PM is monitored by a group of Admins, and it's clarified at the registration process, that's if you usually read the TOS when you want to register somewhere, so if you've been busted doing something unislamic, then you'll get dealt with right away, and it's an advantage in favor of the sisters mainly, so if anyone tries to stalk you, or send you something inappropriate, then I guess he'll get banned even before you report him.

Also, the site asks for the sister's Wali - optional, so in case there is someone who wants to ask for a sister's hand, then the Wali details will be given to the Bro, and he will contact her Wali right away.

And for the sake of our societies' conformity, the site has some Organizations, Shoyoukh and Du'at behind it, just in case someone's father would want to start nagging you about "why you're using such a corrupted technology to find your future partner", and you can refer him to the word of brothers such as:

Abdurraheem Green

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_auc5UctYaI

Sheikh Alaa El Sayed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tF6B0tHvjGE

And here is their promotional video explaining how the site works:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZH467xDrbuM

Also, the site is sponsored by both Mercy Mission and Al-Kauthar!

Anyway, if you're one of those brothers/sisters, who've been struggling unsuccessfully to find a spouse, then you'll lose nothing by trying this service, which's operating within the Islamic Allowed Boundaries, and I have to mention that I've been told, that there is a daily success rate of 2 to 3 stories!

Also, there is a Brothers-only-discussion-board, as well as a Sisters-only one, just like we have here on IA. Profiles' pics won't be shown, unless you choose the member to see your pic by yourself, which grants a more privacy level to the members.

It's been stated to me that's still under an ongoing development process, and many new features have been introduced, or are going to be introduced in the future, which will give the site a dynamic look-n-feel interface, and preserve its vivid young spirit.

Finally, I believe Axo will be the 1st one to jump on there, I feel yo pain Bruv, and I wish you goo' luck, and I hope that I've helped some brothers or sisters by highlighting PureMatrimony.com insha'a ALLAH

P.S:

I hope if anyone has tried it before and had a successful story to share with us here

Failing/Failed stories are not welcome! LOL! Just kidding, I want to hear also about anyone who may have failed, and I wish he/she will tell us why, so it'll be an eye opener for everybody.

[UmmTaymiyah]

Dont get married, become a zahid.
If you want children, hmmm, adopt orphan children. Then you get Jannah for sure without headach and ungrateful wife/wives.

[The.Joshua.Redux]

Dont get married, become a zahid.
If you want children, hmmm, adopt orphan children. Then you get Jannah for sure without headach and ungrateful wife/wives.

[Al Jazairi]

That might suit some, but not the majority, and adopting orphans requires you to have a hubby in first place, or a wife for the brothers, and Zuhd has nothing to do with celibacy, because that's the pure definition of Rahbanah the jews and christians ascribed to their pious ones, although ALLAH didn't impose it on them.

However, I can understand what you're saying, and believe me I do, but it may sound harsh to those, who are just getting into the struggle to find a partner to accompany them in this cruel cold world.

[maaqib]

Finally, I believe Axo will be the 1st one to jump on there, I feel yo pain Bruv, and I wish you goo' luck, and I hope that I've helped some brothers or sisters by highlighting PureMatrimony.com insha'a ALLAH

I has already embarked on there

And I have free membership until April

[Al Jazairi]

LOL!

I knew you'd be interested

Any progress you've made?

[abuhannah]

Dont get married, become a zahid.
If you want children, hmmm, adopt orphan children. Then you get Jannah for sure without headach and ungrateful wife/wives.

You got to be joking?

[abuhannah]

I has already embarked on there

And I have free membership until April

Get married already..

[The.Joshua.Redux]

Bro maaqib, if it helps speed up the process, try Eeny, meeny, miny, moe
Eeny, meeny, miny, moe - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[UmmTaymiyah]

You got to be joking?

Half serious, why get married when the chance of getting divorced is very high and why have kids when the chance is very high that they become master over you?
Go to cave and worship Allah instead.